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3 Tips to manage two jobs.

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Career decisionToday’s question came from a busy professional:

I have been asked to take on 2 day jobs, what are your tips and advice to ensure that it manages both of them without any problems? One of them has a wider scope than another.

 

  1. If you have been “asked” to take on 2 day jobs, you always have the option to say “No, thank you” to one of them. That is always an option.
  2. One way to fully accommodate 2 full-day jobs is to work 16 hours a day and get paid separately for each day job. Otherwise, you are not really handling 2 day jobs; you are merely managing several products, roles and responsibilities. This isn’t that different from many other employees with multiple hats.
  3. My recommendation is to manage your projects and not your “jobs”. Clearly identify the tasks, priority of the tasks, the deadlines and stakeholders for your tasks and projects. Then schedule your time appropriately according to the priorities. Limit your schedule to the 8 or 10 hours of work in which you are being paid. Be transparent with your managers on what you can realistically deliver, and at what quality in that time. If the success is important to your manager, they will be realistic on what can be delivered.

Regardless of how hard you push and pack, a 5 pound bag can only handle 5 pounds of stuff.

I have several self-study courses on time management and realistic scheduling. Check them out at www.lauraleerose.com/ecourses.

I also have a complimentary article on 12 Tips to Realistic Schedule available for download.   Download the full article HERE

I know your situation is different. Why don’t we schedule an appointment, where I get to know more about your unique situation? And then I will be happy to make recommendations on what your best steps are moving forward.

You can schedule a 30 minute complementary consult right HERE.  Do it today, what do you have to lose?

At what point are you being too greedy in salary negotiation?

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose.  I am a speaker and author.  My background is in time and project management.I help busy professionals and entrepreneurs create effective systems so that they can comfortably delegate to others, be more profitable and have time to enjoy life even if they don’t have time to learn new technology or train their staff.  I have a knack for taking big ideas and converting them into smart, sound, and actionable ideas.At the end of the day, I give people peace of mind.Today’s question:At what point does the hiring manager or boss think that you’re being too greedy when it comes to negotiating your salary?

My recommendation is to take everyone out of the picture as your first step.

1) Understand the salary market of your current position and region

2) Understand how relevant your current skills, experience and background is to the current market

3) Understand what salary you desire to achieve the lifestyle that you currently want.

After you have done these steps, you can decide if your salary demands can be sustained by the current market demand.

Then have a transparent discussion with your manager on what your salary goals are.  Provide him with a time line, and alternative compensation solutions.

Work with your manager to define an Individual Development Plan that will take you from where you are today – to where you want to be (in regards to both salary and position) within the suggested time frame.  Work together on a plan to achieve your salary goals.
Avoid approaching this as a “Black/White” negotiation.  Offer alternative compensation solutions like a 4-day work week, flexible hours, working from home a few days a week, an additional week of vacation, additional employee benefits donation/savings matching, educational reimbursements.  Consider to offer if you increase sales and reduce costs by xx% within the next 6-months, that your salary increase will be approved.  Attach your salary directly to monetary performance results.  There are a combination of ways to increase the bottom line of your salary.
The company is in the business to make money.
If you can tangibly quantify how much money you are bringing – it’s easier to negotiate for a raise.

I realize that your situation may be different.   Why don’t we schedule an appointment, where I get to know more about your unique situation? And then I will be happy to make recommendations on what your best steps are moving forward.

With enough notice, it would be my honor to guest-speak at no cost to your group organization.

Contact LauraRose@RoseCoaching.info for additional information on these things.

I also have several worksheets that help clarify your goals, your teams missions, and your performance expectations in the Professional Development Toolkit.  The toolkit goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how of all of the above.  It contains audios, videos, presentations, and worksheets for your use and growth.  Take the next step and check the toolkit out <<HERE>>

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

 

How to be super productive when you only have five minutes

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There are several ways to be productive when you only have five minutes (i.e. this will take less than 5 minutes to read):

1) Learn to delegate.  Be open to the concept that you have a talented staff around you.  Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should be doing it.  If the item is something that others can handle satisfactorily, hand it off.  Only keep the items that ONLY YOU can do.   Only keep the items that are aligned with your pay-grade, and career goals.  This allows you to use your five minutes to review several projects that other people are handling for you.

2) Set your timer.  Often times it’s never a “all or nothing” type of thing.  Set your timer for 5 minutes and chip away at some of your inventory and backlog of email, notes or clutter. When the timer goes off – so do you.  Repeat this several times during the week until your inventory is eliminated.

3) Use the time to setup appointments that leads to high-income activities.  Keep your phone conversations short, to the point, and use them to setup a longer meeting to fully discuss the issue.  Keep the interactions to the point — i.e.  decide on time, place, and reason for the meeting.  Then hang-up and log it in your calendar.  You can set several high-income generating appointments within 5 minutes.

4) Announce upfront that you only have 5 minutes to review their progress or listen to their issue.  Use that time to properly delegate to the right group or agree to a longer meeting later to discuss.  Hand-off the coordination of that meeting to the person that brought the issue to you. Tell them at that time, how much time you will have for that lengthier meeting.   Leave in 5 minutes (use the timer method).

5) Always arrive at least 10 minutes early to a meeting or event.  Carry a professional or personal development activity or your Individual Networking Strategy Workbook (discussed further in the Professional Development Toolkit) with you.  When you arrive at a meeting early or the meeting is starting late — take out your professional or personal development activity and study it.  OR use this 5 minutes to business network with those around you.

The Professional Development Toolkit goes into more detail on the who, what, where, when, why and how of all of these things.

For more information, why don’t we schedule an appointment, where I get to know more about your unique situation? And then I will be happy to make recommendations on what your best steps are moving forward.
With enough notice, it would be my honor to guest speak at no cost to your group organization.

Landing that position in a tough job market

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the business and time management book TimePeace: Making peace with time – and I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in time management, project management and work-life balance strategies.  Stephen Wynkoop and I regularly meet on professional development topics. Our interviews can be found at Laura Rose Career Management Series

This week’s topic was “Advice for improving the odds of landing a position in a tough job market”

One of the best quotes to keep in mind is the “But what have you done for me lately”.  This is true in the job market.  Companies are in the business to make money.  If you can illustrate tangible evidence in both dollars and sense (common sense), how you have made money for your companies in the past and how you will do it in the future – you will stand out.

So – how do you do this when an employer has 600 resumes to review?

The first thing is to catch their attention upfront.  Acknowledge that they will probably only spend seconds on your resume.  If you don’t capture their attention in those first few seconds, your resume is tossed aside.  Therefore, highlight your professional skills that are directly relevant to the desired position right at the top of the resume; followed by the roles and positions that are significant to this current position.

Eliminate any tasks or duties that distract the reader from your applicable skill set. Don’t feel obligated to do a chronological or historically accurate list of all your employment.  Make sure you expand on the tasks that are in direct support to this new position.  Talk in dollars saved or made for the company.  Use numbers and percentages to illustrate how your contributions directly affected increased revenue or reduced costs.

Don’t be afraid to customize your resume to each application. Decades ago, we created one resume and sent 60 copies of the same resume out into the job market.  Today’s technology allows us to customize each resume to better fit and match the desired position.  Use the same terminology and descriptions in your resume as they posted in their job description. Using the same language allows your resume to pass through any automated resume scanner or filter.

 Include cover letters or hyperlinks in your online applications.  Many companies have online applications as their first-line screening.  One way to set you apart from the competition is to include a cover letter or a hyperlink to your YouTube video resume.  Many online applications will allow you to attach a resume and/or cover letter.  Take advantage of these attachments to show more of your individual and team contributor.

Set yourself apart by including YouTube, presentations, and article links. Go out of your way to illustrate your expertise.  With today’s technology, there is no limit to creating your own presentations, webinars, videos, articles, demos, prototypes or eBooks to tangibly show your skill set and expertise.

You have passed that gate and at the interview stage.  How do you continue to set yourself apart?

Much in the same way as you illustrated your value to the company in the resume; you continue to showcase any revenue generating scenarios in your interview.  Continue to highlight stories and examples of how your dedication and contributions affected the company’s bottom line.

 

Avoid highlighting the skills that you do not have. Even if you don’t have the exact requirements for this new job, you have worked in a similar environment, with a similar tool or have the appropriate transferable skills.  Highlight the skill set and experience that you do have and extrapolate how those skills and experience relate and support this new position.  Focus on the transferable skill set that will set you apart from the other candidates.

 

Conduct the interview as a conversation.  Don’t wait until the end of the interview to ask your questions.  Comment and query throughout the interview like a real conversation.  Learn as much about them as they are finding out about you.  This is a two way street.  Use your questions to illustrate that you have done your homework on their company and position.

 

Collect contact information.  One of the mistakes that people make is not to collect contact information from everyone they interviewed with.  Even if you are going through a recruiter, take it upon yourself to contact everyone that you interviewed with.  Although your recruiter is helpful in setting these meetings up – it’s to your advantage to take charge of the follow-up.  After all, your recruiter works for many job candidates.   YOU only have one job candidate to work for:  YOU.

 

Use your follow-up emails and thank you notes to close the skills gap. When you have identified a gap in your skill set during the interview, use the follow-up notes to close that gap.  For instance, if during the interview you realized that they are not only looking for someone with manual test experience, but with automated test experience (even though the original job description did not include it).  Take this opportunity to download one of the many free automated test tools and craft an automated test on their website or product.  Then include this update in your follow-up email to them.

 

Use the phone.  Many candidates will use email and thank you notes as a follow-up.  I agree with the thank you notes.  To set yourself apart, use the phone as well.

 

Add them to your Linkedin.com.  Stay on their radar.  Just because this position doesn’t pan out, make sure you are on their minds for the next opportunity.

 

What about college graduates?  How do they differentiate themselves?

 

As for college graduates, creating a portfolio of your transferable skills and illustrating how that will increase revenue or reduce costs will help.  A graduate that handled both school and the job market will outshine someone who just attended classes.  A graduate that received glowing recommendations from both the job market and professors will outshine one who doesn’t.  A graduate that has a portfolio of presentations, published articles, or a how-to video about that particular job role or industry will outshine one who doesn’t.  In today’s market, the average will not get noticed.   Decades ago, companies were willing to hire graduates with the knowledge that the candidate will not know much and there will be a long learning curve.   In today’s market, you need to show that you already have the talent and discipline for that particular job.  If more you can show that you will be able to hit the ground running (minimum learning curve and self-motivated), the better you will outshine those that don’t do that.  We are talking about tangible evidence (not just lip service).
In the IT Professional Development Toolkit, I go into the: who, what, where, when and how to accomplish all of the above. I also have a transferable skill worksheet.

 

Also following online courses:

12 Tips for Realistic Scheduling
10 Tips for Telecommuters
 10 Career Boosting Resolution Laser Lesson

10 Hidden Time Waster Laser Lesson

Get That Well-Deserved Raise Laser Lesson
Professional Development Toolkit
It’s a SNAP – Social Networking Accelerated Process for business networking

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

 

How to rebuild confidence after you have been out of work for some time

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the business and time management books TimePeace: Making peace with time  and The Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations– and I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in time management, project management and work-life balance strategies.  Stephen Wynkoop and I regularly meet on professional development topics. Our interviews can be found at Laura Rose Career Management Series

This week’s topic was “How to rebuild confidence after you have been out of work for some time”

We can have a gap in our resume in a couple of ways:

1)    We are out of work (either by chose or otherwise)

2)    We have been continuously employed but not in the field of our choice.

In either case, employers may hesitate because the fear that technology has passed us by; our skills are obsolete; and we are no longer relevant.

The best way to build confidence after you has been out of work for some time is to actually accomplish tangible and tactile things while you are out of work.   Identify your goals for self-improvement in regards to health, education, presentation skills, networking, and family.  Then accomplish those goals.  Most employers like to hire self-motivated people that can solve their own problems.  By using this gap in employment for some self-assessment and self-improvement (while you are still job searching) is a good use of your time.

Since the main reason for employer’s hesitation in an employment gap is the ability to stay relevant in today’s ever-changing technology, the best advice is to stay relevant regardless of what type or how the gap occurred.  You can do this by:

  • Use the gap to learn a new skill, achieve a certification or license
  • Stay active in your profession by volunteering your services to nonprofits or service communities
  • Teach at a local community college,
  • Create online courses in your field of expertise.
  • Speak at local professional organizations or conferences
  • Write articles, blogs or eBooks in your field of expertise
  • Develop YouTube presentations, demos or prototypes as proof of your new skill set.
  • Create a portfolio or press kit of your accomplishments during the gap

Note: If you are volunteering, make sure you are working in the area that will assist you in your job search.  For instance, if you volunteer for the ASPCA and are a web designer – don’t take on the task of emptying out the litter box.  Instead, work on their website, assist with their SEO and engine optimizations, or automate their manual office duties.  Accept tasks that are in line with your next job description.

Then update your resume with your new skills and links to your articles, videos, apps, etc.

The employer’s fear of the “gap” is that you have fallen out of touch with your field.  If you can show that you have sharpened your skills (during the gap), then you have tangible evidence that you are not only still relevant in your field but an expert.

Where do I place these volunteering and other activities in the resume?


Remember that your resume isn’t a list of all your “paid” employment.  It’s a place to highlight your skills and talents.  The fact that you didn’t get paid for your services does not detract from your experience and expertise.   I would place all the relevant professional skills at the top of your resume.  I would also include them in your Work Experience.

The resume doesn’t highlight the salary for each position.  It just highlights your ability and skills.

In the IT Professional Development Toolkit, I go into the: who, what, where, when and how to accomplish all of the above. I also have a transferable skill worksheet.

Also following online courses:

12 Tips for Realistic Scheduling
10 Tips for Telecommuters
 10 Career Boosting Resolution Laser Lesson

10 Hidden Time Waster Laser Lesson

Get That Well-Deserved Raise Laser Lesson
Professional Development Toolkit
It’s a SNAP – Social Networking Accelerated Process for business networking

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

How to Repair a Damaged Relationship with Your Boss

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Today we are going to talk about How to Repair a Damaged Relationship with Your Boss

get back to work

Everyone wants to work well with their co-workers and boss. But sometimes it’s difficult because of personalities or the way people like to work.

Here are some different strategies to consider:

1) How can you tell if the relationship with your boss is repairable? The best way to see if the relationship can be repaired is to better
understand how you work and how your boss works. Taking a personality test like Opposite Strengths System <http://www.oppositestrengths.com>,or * Myers Briggs* personality test. <http://similarminds.com/jung.html>  provides an objective and 360 degree assessment.

By understanding the different way people work and how to better relate to those personalities – you are well on your way to repairing the relationship. Since you cannot change how other people react and respond to you – you will need to be willing to make the change. If you are not willing to put in the effort, then the relationship will not change.

2) What if the relationship cannot be repaired but you don’t want to quit?
The best way to change positions within the company is to start business networking with others in the department or area that you want to move into. Start marketing your expertise in their area by volunteering your services, sending helpful articles that point to solutions or new techniques, present Brown Bag Lunch talks on topics of interest, ask to be mentored/coach by others in the other departments, take others to lunch to find out about other opportunities in their area, and schedule an appointment with your HR representative for additional ideas.

Okay – after some soul-searching; you have decided to repair the relationship.  What now?

 

Here are some quick steps:

1) Acknowledge your part in the broken relationship. Make improvements in your performance, stay positive; don’t place him/her in difficult situations; bring solutions to problems; be open to feedback; don’t take things personally, do what you say you would do and keep him/her in the loop when you can not accomplish it and always stay calm and professional (that means no drama)

2) Understand your boss’ point of view: Go the extra mile; anticipate his/her needs; protect his/her time; and  understand his/her communication preferences,

3) Focus on your shared/common goals and interests. Includes some personal interchange. Get to know them a little and give your boss the benefit of the doubt.  Another good reference book is Don Ruiz book “The Four Agreements.”.  This is a great personal and professional relationship manual.

4) Tommy Thomas, PhD  and leader in the Opposite Strength System suggests the following:  To improve your relationship with your manager, the main point to remember is to have an attitude of equality. The mistake most people make in their relationships with people they report to is that they confuse the authoritative position that the manager has in the organization with the value the manager has as a person.

So be sure to blend respect for the manager’s position and authority with conveying an attitude of equality.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above.  The IT Professional Development Toolkit is covers a comprehensive set of development tools and techniques in less than 10 minutes per practice.  It contains audios, videos, articles, webinars, presentations and practice exercises designed to be less than 5-8 minutes in length.  It can be used as a reference platform or a 12 week course program.

 

The toolkit comes in two forms:  DVD and online eLearning program.

elearning versionDVD version

 

For more information about the toolkit, click on the above buttons or please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

For more information about Opposite Strengths System and relationships, check out Tommy’s Relationship Guide. This is a report that will give you detailed; specific coaching on how to approach your manager based on who you are and who your manager is and do so with an attitude of equality. Go to http://www.oppositestrengths.com to learn more.

How to Repair a Damaged Relationship with Your Boss

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Today we are going to talk about how to improve your working relationship with your boss.

Everyone wants to work well with their co-workers and boss. But sometimes it’s difficult because of personalities or the way people like to work.

Here are some different strategies to consider:

1) How can you tell if the relationship with your boss is repairable?
The best way to see if the relationship can be repaired is to better understand how you work and how your boss works. Taking a personality test like Opposite Strengths System <http://www.oppositestrengths.com>,or * Myers Briggs* personality test. <http://similarminds.com/jung.html>  provides an objective and 360degree assessment.

By understanding the different way people work and how to better relate to those personalities – you are well on your way to repairing the relationship. Since you cannot change how other people react and respond to you – you will need to be willing to make the change. If you are not willing to put in the effort, then the relationship will not change.

2) What if the relationship cannot be repaired but you don’t want to quit?
The best way to change positions within the company is to start business networking with others in the department or area that you want to move into. Start marketing your expertise in their area by volunteering your services, sending helpful articles that point to solutions or new techniques, present Brown Bag Lunch talks on topics of interest, ask to be mentored/coach by others in the other departments, take others to lunch to find out about other opportunities in their area, and schedule an appointment with your HR representative for additional ideas.

Okay – after some soul-searching; you have decided to repair the relationship.  What now?

Here are some quick steps:

1) Acknowledge your part in the broken relationship. Make improvements in your performance, stay positive; don’t place him/her in difficult situations; bring solutions to problems; be open to feedback; don’t take things personally, do what you say you would do and keep him/her in the loop when you can not accomplish it and always stay calm and professional (that means no drama)

2) Understand your boss’ point of view: Go the extra mile; anticipate his/her needs; protect his/her time; and  understand his/her communication
preferences,

3) Focus on your shared/common goals and interests. Includes some personal interchange. Get to know them a little and give your boss the benefit of the doubt.  Another good reference book is Don Ruiz book “The Four Agreements.”.  This is a great personal and professional relationship manual.

4) Tommy Thomas, PhD  and leader in the Opposite Strength System suggests the following:  To improve your relationship with your manager, the main point to remember is to have an attitude of equality. The mistake most people make in their relationships with people they report to is that they confuse the authoritative position that the manager has in the organization with the value the manager has as a person.

So be sure to blend respect for the manager’s position and authority with conveying an attitude of equality.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above..  For more information about the toolkit, please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

For more information about Opposite Strengths System and relationships, check out Tommy’s Relationship Guide. This is a report that will give you detailed, specific coaching on how to approach your manager based on who you are and who your manager is and do so with an attitude of equality. Go to http://www.oppositestrengths.com to learn more.

Try it and let me know what you think.

Employers that interview but never hires.

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This is Laura Lee Rose, a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, time management, project management and work-life balance strategies.  In my Professional Development Toolkit package , I go into professional development and real-world IT topics in detail. If you are interested in more training in these areas, get signed up

 I know the usual reasons for not hiring a particular individual, such as under-qualification or just-not-a-fit; but what are the reasons employers interview and then decide not to hire anyone?

There are often different reasons why employers interview and then don’t hire.  Because reasons are normally asynchronous to the hiring process, they are less evident.

Since the interview process takes time and money (from advertizing for the position, filtering and sorting incoming resumes, initial candidate screening and the interview meeting),no company goes into this process with the idea that “they do not intend to really hire anyone”.  They enter this process with the full intention of finding good candidates and eventually a good employee.

But because this process takes time, things can change during the interview process itself.  The longer it takes to find someone, the higher the risk of something changing.
Some things that they may realize during the interview process are:

1) The longer it takes to find the right person, the higher the risk that they realize that this position isn’t as critical as first thought.  They may feel that they are doing fine without the extra hand.  After viewing several candidates, they realize that they rather train and promote from within. Or they find that they have actually completed the project that they were trying to hire.
2) The position disappears because of an re-organization or business strategy change. It could be combined with some other role or eliminated altogether.
3) A new project management strategy is instituted such that either the schedule is extended to allow the current resources to handle the added tasks; or the project scope is diminished such that the current resources are satisfactory.
4) A hiring freeze was just initiated.
5) A different way of subsidizing the resources is implemented instead. This could be a short-term contractor, an affiliated partner is providing the service (outsourcing), the company decides to eliminate that service altogether (and refer clients to their referral partners)

It’s important for job seekers to not take it personally, and work hard to stay on these potential employer’s radar.  Things change – which means things will change again.  If you stay on their radar (through continued business networking techniques), when things change back again, you are on the top of their Rolodex.

In the Professional Toolkit, I provide worksheet, templates and guidance on how to accomplish these things.    The Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations  contains 105 work-life scenarios like the above.  The scenarios show how to accomplish your goals in similar situation.

For more information on how to get this toolkit or the “Book of Answers” email LauraRose@RoseCoaching.info

On the Move? Things to Consider Before Relocating for Work

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Moving boxes in empty roomTraveling across the country for a new job may be just the adventure you’ve been waiting for. Like all adventures, relocating for work comes with its share of challenges. Being honest about the benefits and drawbacks of moving for work can save you time, money and family struggles down the road.

Show Me the Money

One big relocation incentive is a pay increase. But extra zeroes may not make much difference when the boxes are all unpacked. Ask yourself these questions regarding price vs. rewards before relocating:

  • Can I sell my home and break even or make a profit? If you can’t sell your house in a timely way and make enough from the sale for a down payment on another home in the new location, the difference in salary may not be worth the move.
  • Is the pay substantially better than where I am? Although the pay may look like enough to make moving worth the effort, some serious number crunching can help you get a clearer picture. Compare utility costs, fuel costs, taxes, as well as the cost of food in the new location. Are there added perks to the new job, like a car that could save you money? Take time to compare 401k plans, profit sharing and potential bonuses between your current job and the new offer. Adding everything together helps you get a clear picture of how much more you will make if you relocate.
  • Will the new company help with moving expenses? Moving across the country is expensive. Calculating how much the move will cost and whether your new job will to pay for it is an important part of your decision-making process.
  • Will the company cover temporary housing? If you are moving to a large city like, say, Phoenix, finding the right neighborhood for your family can take a lot of time. Many companies offer a short-term housing allowance to cover apartment rentals to give you and your family time to find the right house, neighborhood and school district.

The Relationship Factor

No matter how good the job offer, relocating can be difficult on relationships. Spouses, significant others, children and extended family are all part of the equation. Consider the impact your move will have on those you love by asking yourself these questions:

  • How will the move affect my spouse’s career? If your spouse has achieved certain career goals or is working toward them, relocating for your job may not be in her best interest. Be willing to say “no” to a new offer for the sake of your spouse.
  • What about the children? Moving can be harder on children than anyone in your family. Changing schools, making new friends, getting used to a new neighborhood can be devastating for children if not planned intentionally and strategically. Consider carefully how relocating will impact your children and, if they are old enough, get them involved in the conversation.
  • How will my extended family react? If you live near aging parents, consider how moving will impact them. Do they need help with their daily routine? Will moving mean multiple trips back and forth each year to meet their changing needs? Do your parents provide support like babysitting? How will your family replace this in a new town?