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3 steps to managing people you don’t like

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get back to workThe most effective way to managing people you don’t like is to focus on their positive attributes and not on their annoying habits. Everyone has idiosyncrosies. Everyone brings different things to the party. That is what makes the work force both rich and challenging.

  1. By focusing on the positive attributes and talents that the individual brings to the team, you can not only more easily manage around the uncomfortable areas; but turn those negatives into positives. For instance, if you feel that he/she is too much of a braggart and wanting the spotlight – assign him marketing and promotional activities in which his salesmanship is an advantage to your team. Send him to networking and marketing events. Have those attributes work in your favor.
  2. Also – often the thing you don’t like about someone is a mirror into something you don’t like about yourself. So doing some sole-searching on why you don’t get along with someone might help as well. Seek to improve yourself in those same areas.
  3. Lastly, understand that you can not change how other people respond to you, but you can chang how you respond to others. If the person is constantly late with his/her work (regardless of how little or how easy the task), never assign them a task in the critical path; never put them in the position of becoming the bottleneck of the project.

In my IT Professional Development Toolkit, I go into the: who, what, where, when and how to accomplish all of the above. I also have a transferrable skill worksheet. For more information about the toolkit, please contact https://www.udemy.com/it-professional-development-toolkit/

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What can an unemployed job seeker do to keep their skills sharp?

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What can an unemployed job seeker do to keep their skills sharp and relevant while they are searching for a new job?
There are several ways to keep your skills sharp:

1) Volunteer your services to non-profits and small businesses.  You need to make sure you are offering your services in the area of your job skills/expertise.  Example:  You are a web-designer.  Offer to redo a small business website with the understanding that you can place your logo and designed-by contact information on the pages.

2) Continue your education.  Use those training and certification classes as networking opportunities as well as keeping your skills sharp.  Most likely the people in that class are being sent there by their company to gain this new skill and may be looking for additional resources.  Add these people to your LinkedIn.com network and ask them for their recommendations, endorsements and possibly add them to your reference lists.
3) Develop/create your own utility or product that uses the skill you want to advertise and promote.  This could be a tool that you offer free on the internet – OR – a presentation video on YouTube – OR – a training video on YouTube, facebook, linkedIn, etc.

The goal is to come up with ideas that both keep your skills sharp and helps get you that job.  Each of these solutions have an affect on your resume and cover letters.  You gain additional work experience, recommendations, and references for your resume and cover letters.  You can also refer potential employers to your internet product or YouTube training videos.

How to Repair a Damaged Relationship with Your Boss

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Today we are going to talk about How to Repair a Damaged Relationship with Your Boss

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Everyone wants to work well with their co-workers and boss. But sometimes it’s difficult because of personalities or the way people like to work.

Here are some different strategies to consider:

1) How can you tell if the relationship with your boss is repairable? The best way to see if the relationship can be repaired is to better
understand how you work and how your boss works. Taking a personality test like Opposite Strengths System <http://www.oppositestrengths.com>,or * Myers Briggs* personality test. <http://similarminds.com/jung.html>  provides an objective and 360 degree assessment.

By understanding the different way people work and how to better relate to those personalities – you are well on your way to repairing the relationship. Since you cannot change how other people react and respond to you – you will need to be willing to make the change. If you are not willing to put in the effort, then the relationship will not change.

2) What if the relationship cannot be repaired but you don’t want to quit?
The best way to change positions within the company is to start business networking with others in the department or area that you want to move into. Start marketing your expertise in their area by volunteering your services, sending helpful articles that point to solutions or new techniques, present Brown Bag Lunch talks on topics of interest, ask to be mentored/coach by others in the other departments, take others to lunch to find out about other opportunities in their area, and schedule an appointment with your HR representative for additional ideas.

Okay – after some soul-searching; you have decided to repair the relationship.  What now?

 

Here are some quick steps:

1) Acknowledge your part in the broken relationship. Make improvements in your performance, stay positive; don’t place him/her in difficult situations; bring solutions to problems; be open to feedback; don’t take things personally, do what you say you would do and keep him/her in the loop when you can not accomplish it and always stay calm and professional (that means no drama)

2) Understand your boss’ point of view: Go the extra mile; anticipate his/her needs; protect his/her time; and  understand his/her communication preferences,

3) Focus on your shared/common goals and interests. Includes some personal interchange. Get to know them a little and give your boss the benefit of the doubt.  Another good reference book is Don Ruiz book “The Four Agreements.”.  This is a great personal and professional relationship manual.

4) Tommy Thomas, PhD  and leader in the Opposite Strength System suggests the following:  To improve your relationship with your manager, the main point to remember is to have an attitude of equality. The mistake most people make in their relationships with people they report to is that they confuse the authoritative position that the manager has in the organization with the value the manager has as a person.

So be sure to blend respect for the manager’s position and authority with conveying an attitude of equality.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above.  The IT Professional Development Toolkit is covers a comprehensive set of development tools and techniques in less than 10 minutes per practice.  It contains audios, videos, articles, webinars, presentations and practice exercises designed to be less than 5-8 minutes in length.  It can be used as a reference platform or a 12 week course program.

 

The toolkit comes in two forms:  DVD and online eLearning program.

elearning versionDVD version

 

For more information about the toolkit, click on the above buttons or please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

For more information about Opposite Strengths System and relationships, check out Tommy’s Relationship Guide. This is a report that will give you detailed; specific coaching on how to approach your manager based on who you are and who your manager is and do so with an attitude of equality. Go to http://www.oppositestrengths.com to learn more.

Finding Time for Professional Growth

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Everyone is busy. But if you don’t make the time to manage your career, your career will manage you. Today’s topic is how to find time for professional development.

Most people find comfort in the idea that they:

  • Don’t have time for professional or career development
  • Too busy with daily work to focus on future paths
  • Company doesn’t provide the time or funds for career development
  • Not interested in staying at this company
  • Company doesn’t have any growth opportunity for me

Whether these statements are true or not, they are irrelevant.

  • Your career and professional development is not your company or manager’s responsibility.
  • Your work ‘happiness’ is not your company or manager’s responsibility.
  • The company is not responsible for helping you keep your job.
  • You are in total control of your own career, your own time management strategies, your own personal and professional development.

Both personal and professional development can be accomplished with 10 minutes a day.  Audio tapes, short articles, online programs, discussion groups, pod-casts, as well as various mobile devices make it possible for you to study:

  • On the way to work
  • At your desk during a 10 minute break
  • Over lunch either with friends or alone
  • During your workout
  • Through a walking meditation
  • A 15 minutes distraction from television or video games
  • Standing in any type of line

Everyone has 10 minutes a day for things that are important to themselves.

Also, identify things you can blend into what you are already doing.  Some examples:

  • At meetings, search for possible mentors, learning and even promotion opportunities
  • Invite mentors, coaches and possible new employers to lunch or outside event
  • Take notes and gather data during your normal tasks with the goal of writing and submit a white paper to a conference.  While at the conference, you can participate in an abundance of other learning sessions.
  • Take notes at conferences so that you can easily turn them into reference materials.  Share them with your team and sibling departments through lunch-bag presentations or webinars.

If you incorporate these things as you go along (with the goal of continuous learning and developing), it doesn’t really add any time to your day.

Once you clarify your professional development goals, opportunities will automatically appear.  This isn’t because they magically appear out of nowhere.  It’s because your vision is now clear enough to see what was always there.

But – how is the best way to recognize opportunities

Quick Tips

  • Event that repeats …there an opportunity there.
    • Boss asks the same questions over and over again
    • Clients make the same mistakes or asks the same questions
    • A mistake is made – there’s a problem to solve – which means an opportunity
    • Whenever you are frustrated or overwhelmed – there’s an opportunity
    • Whenever you are disappointed … there is an opportunity

 

When you know what to look for – there are opportunities everywhere. This may bring an immediate feeling of overwhelm-ment and stagnant of indecision.   Jot your opportunities down as they occur (the IT Professional Development Toolkit calls this the Parking Lot Method).  Jotting them down will avoid being overwhelmed. Realize that this is merely a smorgasbord; you simply have to pick and choose.

 

Conclusion: Use your scheduled 10 minutes a day to fill your pipeline of knowledge.

Use your scheduled 10 minutes a day to shift and sort the opportunities that start appearing. Think about how which event can help you the most; which event you are most ready for; which event you can implement right now.

But all these things start with the desire and commitment to start.  Pause for 10 minutes a day and devote that to your professional, personal and career development.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit is covers a comprehensive set of development tools and techniques in less than 10 minutes per practice.  It contains audios, videos, articles, webinars, presentations and practice exercises designed to be less than 5-8 minutes in length.  It can be used as a reference platform or a 12 week course program.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above.  The toolkit comes in two forms:  DVD and online eLearning program.

DVD version elearning version

 

 

For more information about the toolkit, click on the above buttons or please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

 

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

 

How to deal with competition in the workplace

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Today we are going to talk about How to deal with competition in the workplace.

Examples:

  • Coworker was made lead to a high profile project while I was on surgery lead. When I came back I was placed on a lower profile project.
  • There’s only one open lead position in the organization and I am competing against 2 other people for the job.
  • My department budget only allows one person to attend this particular conference.  There are 5 people in my group that are vying for the trip.
  • My department gives a MVP award every year.  I want to win the award, but there are 5 other people  in my group.

 More often than not – the feeling of competition comes from the idea of scarcity.  When you believe there are only one spot on the high-profile project, one job available, and one seat on the conference table – then of course there is a feeling of competition.  The face is that there will be other high-profile projects around the corner (that’s not the only one that is ever going to present itself).  There will be other open positions in other departments and groups (this isn’t the last job available ever).  There are other ways to get to a conference (having your department send you isn’t the only option). The MVP isn’t the only award given, your department isn’t the only one that gives out awards, and this isn’t the only year that they give it out.

 

To eliminate the feeling of competition – create your own opportunities.

1)     Network and investigate other leads and job opportunities in other sister departments

2)     Increase your value to other departments, managers, executives and clients

3)     Meet with mentors and experts to get guidance on how to shore up you skill set and talent gaps to get the next high-profile project.

4)     Make yourself visible to high-profile clients to eventually become their pick as a liaison.

5)     Submit abstracts and papers to various conferences.    When you are a speaker at the conference, your admittance is paid for by the conference.  Your department budget isn’t affected.

6)     Offer to assist the marketing or sales departments to create additional opportunities for yourself.

7)     Publicize and clarify your goals to allow others to keep an eye and ear out for you.

 

The Personal Business Commitment plan, the Individual Development Plan and the Individual Network Strategy workbook (all found in the IT Development Toolkit), helps you outline the steps to accomplish the above.

 

Bottom line – There’s rarely only one way to succeed.  Get yourself out of the competition mode by realizing that you don’t only have 1 bite of the 1 apple.  Focus on your ultimate goal.

 

For example – If your goal is to get to the conference, then the goal is to get to the conference.  It’s not to get your department to pay for your conference expenses.

Your goal is to be considered a valuable employee and eventually lead on a high-profile project.  It’s not to be the lead on this particular high-profile project.

 

Once you focus on your real goal, additional alternative routes appear. Others will continue to focus on the more obvious routes.  But if you focus on the path less traveled, you will eliminate much competition.

 

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above. The IT Professional Development Toolkit is covers a comprehensive set of development tools and techniques in less than 10 minutes per practice.  It contains audios, videos, articles, webinars, presentations and practice exercises designed to be less than 5-8 minutes in length.  It can be used as a reference platform or a 12 week course program.

The toolkit comes in two forms:  DVD and online eLearning program.

DVD version  elearning version

 

For more information about the toolkit, click on the above buttons or please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

 

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

 

 

Jack of all trades or an Expert in a few – which is better.

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Hello, this is Laura Lee Rose – author of the books TimePeace: Making peace with time – and the Book of Answers: 105 Career Critical Situations.   I am a business and efficiency coach that specializes in professional development, career management, time management, and work-life balance strategies.

Today’s question is : What’s more valuable to job force…..jack of all trade or expert in a few? Which is better to stay employed and get promoted.

Once again, it will greatly depend upon your career goals.  Let’s look at some career goals as an illustration.

  • Want to be valued and considered a MVP in my department at my next performance review
  • Want to be valued and considered a MVP in my division within 3 years
  • Want to eventually become a Director or VP in development and research within 8 years
  • Want to own my own consulting business within 10 years.

In all of the above, it’s beneficial to be an expert in your dominant field or role, and very good in adjacent areas and roles.  The degree in which you are proficient in each area depends on your current career path.

If your goal is to be considered a valuable contributor to your department, you need to be ready to step into other people’s positions on an as-needed basis.  The argument of “that’s not my job” is fine is but it also limits your value to your department.  You still want to be an expert in your assigned tasks, but being able to manage other adjacent tasks, functions and areas of your department increases your value.   You will not be able to be an expert in all areas, but if you can be an adequate temporary solution in some adjacent roles (jack of some skills AND an expert in one or two)  to help the team to conquer the current huddle, your value increases.

As you sale up the career mountain, business networking and collaboration becomes more important.

If you want to be the GoTo Person in your division, you need to be well-connected and knowledgeable across departments.  You don’t need to know everything about everything; merely seem that way.  This means you know how to gather the data or borrow the expertise from someone else.  By creating a entourage and support circle of co-workers, mentors, and other experts, you can provide the needed service to both sides of the equation.  You will have become an opportunity agent for both the requester and the supplier.

The higher the stakes, the wider the net of experience.

For instance, if you are interested in receiving an Average Performance Rating, then you only need to do excellent work in your assigned duties (expert in one or two areas).  But the higher the stakes and the higher you rise, the wider your experience net needs to be.  As you rise on your career ladder, you will be depending more on your business relationships, market trending and forecasting experience, business cycles and even human nature.  You will find that the higher the rung, the further away from the technical details you will be traveling.  You will be traveling more toward forecasting, predicting and designing long-term strategies.

 

You will still be knowledgeable in your primary technical skill, but that will no longer by your dominant attribute or value.

 

Conclusion:  If you have your Individual Development Plan (outlined in the IT Professional Development Toolkit program), it will be easy for you to determine which areas to focus on as an expert; which to gain secondary experience and knowledge; and which gaps to fill in with your network of experts, mentors and collaborators.

 

The IT Professional Development Toolkit is covers a comprehensive set of development tools and techniques in less than 10 minutes per practice.  It contains audios, videos, articles, webinars, presentations and practice exercises designed to be less than 5-8 minutes in length.  It can be used as a reference platform or a 12 week course program.

The IT Professional Development Toolkit, goes into the who, what, where, when, why and how to accomplish all of the above.  The toolkit comes in two forms:  DVD and online eLearning program.  For more information, click on the below version.

 

DVD version                                                 elearning version

 

For more information about the toolkit, click on the above buttons or please go to my website at www.lauraleerose.com

 

Or sign up for my weekly Time and Career Management Newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/cZ9_-/

What should you say and not say during an exit interview?

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Although there are many reasons for leaving a job, it’s a good rule of thumb to leave it on good terms (even if the work environment was difficult).

Some things to consider:
1) When asked “Why are you leaving”, avoid saying anything negative about the position or people that you are leaving.  Focus on the fact that this current position has prepared you for this new opportunity.  Appreciate all the learning experiences and skill set that this current position afforded you.  Without this current position, you would not have been able to advance to the next level.

2) Leave with an attitude of service.  Offer 1 week of limited phone or email consult.  Even though your last two weeks at the current job should be training and handing-off to your replacement; many organizations don’t actually rehire until after you have gone and they may have some questions after you leave.  Offering some availability, illustrates your desire for the department to succeed after you leave.   It’s is not likely that they will call.  But it’s a nice offer to make.

3) When asked “Is there anything we should change, to better retain good employees like yourself?”  be prepared with procedural improvements that support the business mission and goals.  Avoid emotional and personal comments on managers and co-workers.  Focus on steps that will increase the company’s revenue, customer satisfaction, and efficiency.

4) Avoid losing contact.  Keep in touch with all your significant co-workers, managers, mentors and clients from this job.  Business network with these people after you leave.   Things change. Their positions will change; their needs will change; your position will change and your needs will change.  Opportunities will rise because of these business networks.

5) Leave with a strong handshake and smile.  Exit a job just as you would leave a job interview.  Promise to keep in touch and wish them well.

 

ITDevDVDThe Professional Development Toolkit DVD and e-course goes into the who, what, where, when and why of all of the above.

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How to handle difficult clients

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How best to manage relationships with clients who can be difficult or trying.

I am a business and professional development coach. My professional website is www.LauraLeeRose.com and my company is Rose Coaching.

Whether you work in the corporate staff environment or own you own business,  you will bump into a dissatisfied customer once and awhile.  Below are some quick tips to diffuse and handle the situation.

1) Understand what your client is trying to accomplish. Most focus on what the thing the client is reporting and not on what the client is trying to accomplish. If you achieve the essence of the client’s goal, he will be appeased – even if the thing he is reporting isn’t fixed.

2) Illustrate that you are on the client’s side. Paraphrase what the client is trying to accomplish and acknowledge that he is frustrated with the current situation. Most difficulties arise when you defend your position against a difficult client. It’s a tricky situation because you don’t want to ‘bad-mouth’ your company. But you do want to acknowledge that this is a frustrating situation.

3) Take responsibility for fixing the situation. Handing-off to a manager or someone else exudes a dismissive attitude. If you can not answer the question, include someone else but stay engaged in the solution. The client wants one point-person to see this crisis through with him. Handing-off to others shows that you don’t really care.

4) Ask the client how they would like it fixed. Since every client is a unique person, you may not be able to read his/her mind. Therefore, ask them how they want this situation to be fixed. If they are invited to be part of the solution, they will not be finding more problems. Some clients will get stuck with the “what is” problem. But guide them into “Although this is a regrettable situation, this is where we are now. What can I do from this point to help you get what you need.”

5) Go above and beyond to make amends. When you make a mistake, go above and beyond to make amends. This may include additional products, services or gifts.

An example that ties all this together. Client is there to purchase an advertized a 2-piece product. You have the first piece but ran out of the second piece (which isn’t supposed to happen). This was your store’s inventory mistake. You ask how the client wants you to fix this, and they state, “I want you to honor your advertizing.” You locate another sibling store that carries both pieces. That store is an hour travel time away. You want to keep the commission so you tell the client to pay for the product here, and pickup the 2nd piece at the other store. (Not taking responsibility for fixing the problem).

Understand what the client is trying to accomplish: Client wants the full product but doesn’t want to add the time and travel to receive it. If the client has to travel another hour to pick up the 2-piece product, they are more inclined to give the commission to the 2nd store. They don’t want to pay you for passing them off to someone else. Offer to ship the product to their home with no shipping charge. Put a rush (next day) delivery from the 2nd store directly to their home – with no charge to the client.  You should also include an additional gift for the inconvenience and shipping delay.

Beating the winter time office-blues.

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wintertimebluesWinter is coming, and it often brings about a negative mood swing.  Doctors have officially recognized the winter blues as a named, medical condition called Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD.  Couple that with the increasing number of disengaged employee base, and we have a SAD office place.

A recent Gallup Poll disclosed startling statistics about the state of disengaged employee base. The survey found 54.7 percent of workers are “not engaged” and another 17.5 percent are “actively disengaged” with their jobs. That means that less than 30% are considered to be engaged with their work. The majority of those less engaged tend to be baby boomers and Gen Xers and tend to be with employees who have been at their company between 3 and 10 years.
There may be several reasons for the disengagement.

1) Employees are not taking full responsibility for their own career and professional development

2) Their current position is not aligned with their professional passions and goals; but are afraid to leave the job.  They are convinced that they can not get the job of their dreams.  Therefore, they disengage.

3) They listen to the news about the job market and feel that they need to stay where they are and not rock the boat.

Disengagement is directly associated with the feeling (or lack of feeling) of autonomy and empowerment.    Most people have more power then they recognize.  Most people have more options than they realize.  But if you don’t believe that you have these choices available to you – then you feel trapped and then you disengage.
Partnering with a mentor(s) or success coach unlocks those limiting thinking.   Look around the office to witness who, in your organization, seem energized and excited.  Ask them “Why, What, Where, When and How”.  Find local heroes and those you admire.  Start up a mentor program of your own (both mentor someone and ask someone to mentor you).   Designing an accountability partner (someone in your corner) is a good defense against winter time blues.

How to deal with difficult clients without losing business.

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How to deal with difficult clients without losing business.

For your business to thrive, you need the right client (not just any client). Often times the difficult clients means it’s a poor match. It could mean that you don’t have the right product; the right price; or the right service level for them. In these cases, they are not the right client for you. If you continue to try to provide for the wrong clients, you will loose business for a few reasons:
1) customerserviceThey will never be happy with your service.
2) You will loose money trying to make them happy (which you will never be
able to do).
3) They will tell everyone that they know – not to go to your place
(loosing you more clients).

So – sometimes, trying to keep a client actually loses you business.

Some ways to deal with difficult clients without losing business:

1) Understand the reason the client is asking for this particular item. Sometimes what the client really needs is different from what they are actually asking for. If you take the time to understand the client’s perspective, goal and reason for the purchase (of service or product), then even if you don’t have the exact product they are asking for, you may have a different solution for them. Sometimes people get fixated on one way to fix the problem, when there are multiple solutions. You may have a different product that solves their problem – just not the one they are fixated on right now.

2) Be prepared with a list of affiliated or referred partners. If you don’t have the right solution, be prepared to hand-off to someone in your referral or affiliated program. This way the client stays happy and you get the referral fee.

3) Apologize for the situation and ask the client how he/she would like this situation handled. Try to accommodate as best as you can within the goal of your company. If you are not able to accommodate the client and you have caused them some inconvenience, provide them an in-store coupon or gift certificate that requires them to come back to redeem.