There is a fabulous fantasy series called “Once Upon A Time” that I admit I watch/tape. I enjoy it because it takes the fairy tales that we all know and love — and re-arranges them a little. It puts a different spin on the “same ole, same ole”. It’s very innovative. If you haven’t bumped into it — check your local tv listings for it.
So — what does this have to do with today’s discussion? EVERYTHING!
Have you heard of the Butterfly Effect? (if not — watch below video). What can you do differently today — to put a little bit of a spin on things? I’m not suggesting anything too dramatic. But, what do you think would happen if you were to :
- Instead of always asking your kids “How was your day? What happened today?” — You asked them “What do you want to happen differently tomorrow? What are your plans for tomorrow?”
- Instead of always asking your co-worker “How is it going?” — you told them how much you appreciated their help in XYZ?
- Instead of always accepting a task that you don’t have time for — you were deliberate about your time and always honest about your current task list? What if you periodically recommended someone else for a task that doesn’t fit your current goals?
- Instead of always secretly complaining about how a meeting is run — you were to step-up and facilitated one of those meetings?
- Instead of coming home always exhausted – you took the time to walk around your block before entering the house? A brisk walk allows you to clear your head, get oxygen into your body and usually uplifts your spirit. You will be greeting your family in a much better and energized mood.
What if you altered your habits just slightly? What do you think would happen?
Watch this video on the Butterfly Effect — and let me what steps you are ready to take right now.